It’s not my aim in life to spend all my days thinking of ways to make each other as miserable as possible. I don’t want that kind of marriage. If that is the case, then why bother getting married at all.
I don’t want the kind of marriage where my husband’s actions or inaction turn me into the nagging wife. I’ll never be that woman.
And I don’t want to lose myself. Change is inevitable yes. Priorities change. Schedules change. Our needs change. But that doesn’t mean that I have to give up who I’ve become without him.
That is all.
*Title taken from a line in an episode of Martin starring Martin Lawrence as Jerome.